This drug called shopping

Walking out of a store with three new bags feels like a natural high. But, like all highs, at some point, it must come down and then one becomes broke and helpless. For the ones who can relate now, share my pain, but for the ones who can’t understand the addiction of shopping, let me explain.

Although it may seem trite, a shopping addiction can become a serious problem. MTV even devoted an entire show to this problem titled, “True Life: I’m a Compulsive Shopper.” Eighteen-year-old Gabby caused her parents to go into debt about $10,000 because of her problem. Her closet is stuffed with clothes and a pair of $300 jeans still has its price tag. While my shopping may not come close to the person in the show, it does hold some concern.Going into a store and picking up a new outfit creates a great feeling, although I must admit it is a superficial one. Slowly, shopping becomes the cure for most things. When I’m upset because of a break-up or even a bad day, buying myself a pity treat from the mall lifts my spirits. When I’m happy because I just got an A in my toughest class it becomes an excuse to reward myself. Any emotion whether it’s being bored, happy, sad or mad, can be cured or rewarded through shopping.

Working at a high-end clothing store also brought shopping addictions even more to my awareness. One lady would come in and shop so much, that she admitted not being able to afford her rent. Making her realize the $250 shirt was not worth more than a roof over her head was hard to do. Instead of suckering her money, we told her not to shop anymore because we felt guilty and responsible.

Watching how a silly love of shopping can drain your wallet, and, potentially, your life has really opened my eyes. Walking out of a store with new bags is not worth the debt. It may be silly, but an addiction is an addiction. Gaining confidence without having to buy the latest fashions is a better piece of mind and best of all, it’s free.